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Paul Sturrock's avatar

This is really useful. My 36 year old son was recently diagnosed. When I first read the descriptions and the diagnostic questions, I was sceptical. It read like most horoscopes read to me. My reaction was "this applies to me and just about all my friends".

He had a great comeback: "That's probably because you have it, and you've therefore easily connected and been attracted to others with ADHD traits as friends.

So since then I have reconsidered. I've also realised that if I do have it, I'm very lucky because I don't suffer from the negative emotional aspects. I like having a drifting, magpie curiosity-following mind. It has lots of downsides, but I've managed to find a career that rewards most of the traits. I don't say that with arrogance and price, just gratitude that I've mostly avoided the downside.

So your point about it being "a lot of things" is very helpful. Looking forward to learning more.

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Mike G's avatar

Great post and series. We need fresh eyes like yours on ADHD.

I treat ADHD teens.

You write: "Parents and teachers might need different approaches for different kids." So true.

Low SES kids often deemed "lazy" and written off.

High SES kids often dispatched on journey of neuropsych, meds, therapy, EF coaching, accommodations....but still struggle.

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